May 26, 2012
I really don’t like her and don’t know what to do now but she asked me to the dance in 3 days but I don’t want to go with her
I have been in the same situation as you my friend. Let me tell you, you will get much abuse from girls answering your question, much like the female below who has called you a ‘prick’.
Let me tell you why you are not a prick.
If a girl asks you out, or to the dance in your case, they put you on the spot, how can you say no and break their little heart, females are forever complaining that boys upset them, so I do not believe that you should be penalized for trying to protect her feelings, I mean, it’s her fault for asking someone out whom is out of her league.
If it happens again however, I would advise that you say no straight away. I have just ended a relationship that I was in for 2 years, all because when she asked me out, I felt sorry for her and said yes. And for two years I had to hide the fact that I thought she was ugly and I that I would have rather penetrated a Mooses’ ear than penetrate her.
K well the first time she asked you out its kinda nice to say yes even if you dont like her but then after that one date, you can say no
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Then you’re a prick. You shouldn’t of said yes.
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I’m in the same situation just tell her you don;t want to break her heart and go out with her not liking her but she’s a good friend or something she’ll get over it I guess lol…
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go with her just as friends, and tell her that!
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Thats really bad
You should have said no softly, and apologized…
just dance with her for one dance, but if you have to say yu
arent interested
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the smart thing would have been to say no in the first place, but go out with her for a little while then (politely) dump her
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you should have never said yes
don’t ever say yes because you feel bad
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well its a little to late to back out on heer.
just go.
you might even have a good time. and then at the end of the night make it clear that you like her as a friend.
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Tell her that you want to go just as friends and that you don’t have feelings for her. If she really likes you she’ll understand.
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you shouldn’t have said yes
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have fun at the dance, if you still feel that way, tell her how you feel
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You are the biggest a-hole if you skip out on her and the dance is in three days
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wrong move.
your stuck with her until YOU break it off in person.
You shouldnt feel bad, honey. What will get her upset is the fact that you never liked her in the first place. She might feel as though your playing her/lying to her.
Say sorry and you didnt mean to hurt her feelings.
this is a tough situation, youll get through it. think positive.
Good luck buddy.
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You can make the best of it and go to the dance with her, or you need to tell her now that your not going to the dance with her. It will probably hurt her feelings, but It might give her enough time to find another date.
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i think since you said yes you technically don’t have a choice any more, but see how it goes and i guess think about what is positive about her and if it would be possible for you to like her. Then maybe you’ll see that she is an ok person. See how the dance goes and decide. Good Luck!!!
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say you have your eye on someone else
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well im in the same situation man, but if your a bigger man than me you would say yes so you can get to know her better and maybe you will fall for her
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Honestly you should just man up and go with her to the dance. I’m sure it would make her incredibly happy and maybe you might find that you two have a lot in common(I’m assuming you don’t know her very well), and end up having a good time as well.
Don’t back down now, you’ve already said yes, don’t be that type of guy.
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say your going out with someone else and if she ask who say cristy moore or emily picket or a made up name
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you already told her youd go, just go and have fun and maybe you’ll find out you like her after all.
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You shouldn’t have said "yes".
Yeah, she will probably be disappointed when you tell her the truth (which is what I think you should do), but I think that she’d rather you not go with her at all than going with her just because you feel guilty about saying no – and NOT because you’re actually into her.
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You better be honest and end it fast! Aren’t you going to feel way worse if you keep leading her on?
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I did the same thing. Honestly, tell her the truth because if she finds out alter which she will, its going to get worse and you’re going to feel worse
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ahh, your screwed kinda.
haha just say no i wanna go solo(:
thats what i would do with a boy.:p
and some boy sk me out and i said yes but i didnt like him but two days after i borke up with him.
haha (:
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I think you should be honest with her….Sure it will hurt her, but it’s always best to be honest…..Honesty hurts but lies hurt even more…..I’m sure one day she will thank you for telling her the truth, if not…..at least you will be ok with yourself cause you were honest and you did the right thing…..it’s not good to pretend to like someone, that is bad for you and for her…Just be honest with her, and tell her the truth….I’m sure no one would want someone dating them cause they "pity" them……Trust me be HONEST! Good Luck
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Experience!!
Follow your first thought, which was probably a rejection. Don’t lead the poor girl on, it might bring more problems for you and her after the dance.
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Experience
hang out with her a couple of days and if it really doesn’t work out tell her so and suggest to still being friends
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u should have not said yes u are just causing yourself more problems and are going to hurt her more then saying no… u should honestly tell her that u don’t have those feelings for her and that u would like to be friends because things are just going to get worse as time goes by..
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tell her the true
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The time to turn her down was when she asked you to go. Now that you promised to go with her, just keep your promise. If you backed out now, that would be very rude.
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make sure its just as friends. or otherwise tell her you cant go with her for whatever reason (blame your parents… it usually works) and then ask out who you do like. with 3 days though, you may be out of luck here. Future advice: Pity dates are bad and more often then not lead to serious problems. Just say no.
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just get to know her better, you never know you might get to like her. i dident want to date my boyfriend at first but my sister hooked us up. ive been with him for ten months now and i apsolutrly love him. it just depends on the feelings you could have for her. if you think she is pretty and could stand dating her dont worry about what other people say. go to the dance with her and dont act like a doushe,. you will only hurt this girl if you do that. after spending some time with her if you still dont like her just please tell her before it goes to far you will only end up hurting her in the end.
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say this.
" hoe i don’t like you. yo vagina smell like all the creatures in the ocean. you look like a piece of crap. & you hairline meets the back of yo head.
say that. & she’ll never talk to you again.
Vote best answer.
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Just go do it, man. I’ve been in that situation before, and I’ve always ended up having a pretty good time. It doesn’t have to continue on after that, but make the best of it….and you’ll be surprised that you just might like the company you’re with for that day.
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I have been in the same situation as you my friend. Let me tell you, you will get much abuse from girls answering your question, much like the female below who has called you a ‘prick’.
Let me tell you why you are not a prick.
If a girl asks you out, or to the dance in your case, they put you on the spot, how can you say no and break their little heart, females are forever complaining that boys upset them, so I do not believe that you should be penalized for trying to protect her feelings, I mean, it’s her fault for asking someone out whom is out of her league.
If it happens again however, I would advise that you say no straight away. I have just ended a relationship that I was in for 2 years, all because when she asked me out, I felt sorry for her and said yes. And for two years I had to hide the fact that I thought she was ugly and I that I would have rather penetrated a Mooses’ ear than penetrate her.
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Suck it up and go with her if you’ve said yes. Afterward, take her home and ask her if she felt anything happening between the two of you. Outline a few examples about why It wouldn’t work between you two without being mean. Be courteous, be nice. Maybe give a reason why she won’t like you in the long run. Say goodnight and leave in a gentlemanly manner.
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