May 25, 2012
IF this is too long, just skin to last part…
There’s not really a right or wrong answer here, I’m just looking for a new perspective that’ll maybe help me out, something I haven’t heard before… IF this is too long, just skin to last part…
I’ve been dating my bf for about eight months, I don’t want to break up or anything, but he’s being a real…….. Jerk? Yeah, jerk lets go with that..
At first chance to dance up at our high school, I let him know I don’t feel comfortable with "grinding"… So I didn’t grind with him, just slow danced… So he "grinded" with two other girls, which isn’t really nice at all…. But I can see where he’s coming from, he told me he was going to.
I’m totally insecure, I’ve never done it before, I don’t move right, dot dot dot… He said he’s not going to let my insecurities ruin his fun… Also, insensitive.
Now I’m faced with a decision, either don’t grind with him, he’ll dump me (he said he was going to), don’t go- get dumped, grind while being tense – get dumped, or some miraculous way dance right- stay together…
Opinion?
I’d be fine with normal dancing, except music at these dances suck, and all anybody does it dry hump each other… (grinding, really they just swivel back and forth for several hours)
well i’d just try to freak with him(grind). some couples see it as fun and sexual. but if ur not into that stuff yet, dont let it get to you. find a guy who respects ur decisions, but still give ur guy a chance.
DUMP HIM
you deserve a guy that understands.
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well i’d just try to freak with him(grind). some couples see it as fun and sexual. but if ur not into that stuff yet, dont let it get to you. find a guy who respects ur decisions, but still give ur guy a chance.
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Dump him. He’s an inconsiderate chauvinistic pig who is just going to keep on pressuring you o do things you don’t want to do. Find somebody worth your time.
That might seem harsh, but the truth hurts. Don’t let him drag you down. <3
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WOW honey you are WAY to young to be dealing with this unnecessary stress. he;s not your husband. just dump him and tell him he’s dumb for losing a precious person for a freakin DANCE MOVE!!! find a guy who loves you for you not you dance skills haha
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dump him he sounds like a douchebag
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Tell him to frig off and grow up a little? As for you dont freak its just a dance? go have fun and stop being so tense about "grinding" no one gives a shit. lol
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he sounds like a complete a** hole. leave him and move on. you will have no problem finding another guy that will treat you better
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Dump him.
Thats not a real boyfriend at all!
You deserve so much better than that.
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As an adult, it sickens me to see younger people behaving as if they have no self-respect or respect for each other. I watched a young couple "grinding" and all I could think was "how can she enjoy making herself look like a slut, and why does her boyfriend let her do that?" The problem is not with you – it’s your boyfriend. You have a strong sense of self-respect and you should be commended for that. Girls like you are very rare these days. Stick with your values sweetie, one day you’ll discover that decent guys respect girls like you. Maybe you should consider dumping your bf. Wanting you to act like a slut in public tells me he’s a loser and will never appreciate a decent girl like you. Trust me, you deserve better
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Life experiences.